In Remembrance Of
Steve Kilgore
Steven Glen Kilgore, 60 of Gower, MO passed away October 22, 2025.
He was born on November 4, 1964, to Arthur Glen and Jean (Raney) Kilgore in Kansas City, MO. Steve grew up in Gower and in 1983, he graduated from East Buchanan High School. He received his Bachelor of Science in Computer Science from Central Missouri State University in Warrensburg, MO.
On September 3, 1988, he was united in marriage to Vickie Christine Walker. After their marriage they lived in Kansas City and settled in Gower where they raised their family and made their home.
Steve built his career of 38 years working for Travelport. He enjoyed outdoor activities including hunting, camping, cooking, canoeing, golfing, skiing and attending KC Chiefs games. Steve loved being a husband and dad, most of all, he loved being a grandpa.
He was preceded in death by his dad Glen Kilgore.
Steve is survived by his wife Vickie Kilgore; his sons Aaron (Piper) Kilgore, Sean (Lauren) Kilgore and Ryan (Chloe) Kilgore; grandchildren Rhys, Anora, Baker, Delaney and Colter; his mother Jean (Ron) Cravens; his brothers Keith (Shanna) Kilgore and Kent Kilgore; his sister-in-law Tracy (Thomas) Greenwell; his father-in-law Lanny (Becky) Walker; several nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends.
Private family burial will be held at Mt. Moriah Cemetery in Kansas City, MO.
Celebration of Life Visitation will be held from 6:00-8:00 p.m. Thursday, October 30th at Hixson-Klein Funeral Home in Gower.
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Service Details
6:00-8:00 p.m. Thursday, October 30th at Hixson-Klein Funeral Home in Gower.
Comments & condolences
21 comments
Molly Hampton
To the Kilgore Family
I was very saddened to hear of Steve’s passing. May you be surrounded with warmth, love, and peace.
BRENDA J PEUGH
Vickie, my heart cried when I heard about Steve’s passing. Please know that Shawn and I are thinking of you and your family. Stay strong.
Condolences, Brenda
Namita Rawat
Really sorry for your loss, Vickie. Prayers for you and your family for comfort and healing during this tough time.
Tim Hutchison
Steve Kilgore was not a weenie (a reference to an old long-running internal joke we used to share).
In fact, he was a real stud in everything he did. (I hope the formatting of this “holds”. If not, apologies).
Technically, a stud! In a company filled with a lot of impressively bright people, he was a Tier One guy! There’s a certain mindset in highly technical (and competitive) environments where many live by, “Knowledge is power. Never give away power!”. That was not the case for Steve. He was always willing to share, advise, teach, etc., and did so with a real sense of caring/giving, and a tolerance for those of us too slow to keep up!
Athletically, a stud! high school sports achievements were stellar. He was a great softball player and one of the fastest! We also played a lot of golf together. I can’t say he/we excelled at it but we sure had fun! He went on several of our annual golf trips to Myrtle Beach and had no problem keeping up with my crazy brothers’ beer consumption!
Musically, a stud! We swapped a lot of music CDs…almost all on the “heavy” side. How was he able to work productively whilst head-banging via earphones? Did I mention how smart he was? My younger brother still calls him “the AC/DC dude”.
Personally/spiritually, a stud! He was one of the most laid-back, easy-going guys I’ve ever met. I know he knew he was a stud but he never flaunted it. He never had to…at least, not around us. His inner strength was always apparent. His demeanor/attitude for the duration of his long struggle is a real testament to that inner strength.
My deepest condolences and sympathies to Vicki and family! I’m really sorry I can’t be there for the services!
Much Love, tim
P.S. The last time I saw Steve was during one of his business trips to ATL. Over lunch, I reflected on a golf trip I had made back to KC and had stayed with Steve & Vicki. We were relaxing in the living room when Ryan (2-3 years old at the time) walked up to me and started a long-running narrative about something…in a language only understood by 2-3 year olds, I guess? It was obvious that he knew what he was saying and that he thought it was important! Yet he didn’t seem to mind my inability to understand! It was stunning! When I told Steve how impressed I was and that maybe Ryan (then in high school) should become a lawyer or something, he replied, “Yeah…and he hasn’t shut up since!”
F C!!
RIP Steve, you deserve it.
Lori Newby
Steve was my cousin. He was my first friend outside of siblings. Steve is such a core part of my childhood memories. I am so saddened by his passing and not at all surprised by the beautiful family he created.
Surbhi Gupta
I’m deeply saddened by the passing of Steve Kilgore. I had the privilege of working with him for over a decade, and during that time, he was nothing short of incredible — always supportive, kind, and genuine in every interaction. Steve was a true gem, someone who inspired everyone around him with his humility, wisdom, and positivity.
My heartfelt condolences go out to his family during this difficult time. May God give them immense strength and comfort to bear this loss.
Christy Kirby
I am so sorry Vickie, please accept my deepest condolences during this incredibly difficult time. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
John Rebel
Vickie,
I’m truly sorry to hear about Steve’s passing.
He was a great guy and he will be missed.
Know that my thoughts are with you and your family.
John
Curtis R Wickersham
Hi Vickie and family,
We wanted to express our sympathies to you and family. Steve was such a great role model for all that knew him. I would characterize Steve as Mr. Cool with his calming and confident voice and attitude along with willingness to assist or help when asked. Good memories from the KC days in early 90’s to the virtual work environments the last few years!
Prayers to you and the family,
Curtis & Robin Wickersham
Balvir Singh
Pls accept my condolences. May God give you & your family strength to go through such sad times. Praying for lost soul to rest in peace.
Nagesh Ananthula
Wishing you strength and peace during this difficult time. My deepest condolences.
Christy (Bartel) Shives
To the Kilgore family-
My thoughts and prayers are with your family as you remember Steve today and always.
May your shared memories bring you strength and solace.
I will always remember his smile.
Bryan Alison
Dear Vickie, though I only had brief encounters in our working environment with you and Steve over the years, it was clear to me that both of you were kind and caring folks. I always found it a pleasure to work with Steve and with you. I was aware of Steve’s long health battle and prayed for him many times. Now, my prayers are for you and your family in his passing, that the God of all grace may bring peace and strength to you in the days ahead. May you know the love of Christ and the comfort of His Spirit. My sympathies go out to you and your family in your loss.
Kindest regards,
Bryan
Nancy Wingate
Dearest Vickie and family,
I am praying for you during this time of sadness and in the days to come. May GOD comfort you in your memories.
Much Love,
Nancy Wingate
Bob Langlands
Vickie, The news of Steve’s passing brought tears to my eyes. I still remember our time together in the PARS training class in 1987. You and Steve were so much fun and sooooo smart. Then to have worked with you two during our years at Worldspan and Travelport.
It is a privilege to have known both of you. I wish the best for you and your family.
And I am so sorry I can’t make it to the visitation.
Bob
Mae Pham
Dear Vickie,
I’m so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and families. Sending prayers to you all for peace, strength and comfort during this difficult time. 🙏😢
Chris Dulavitz
I am so sorry for the Kilgore family’s loss. I will be praying for Vickie and the rest of the family in this difficult time.
Bob Braun
Vicky and Kilgore Family – I am so very sorry to learn about Steve’s passing. I will always remember him as a quiet professional and gentleman at work with a good sense of humor. I send you my sincerest condolences and hope that the wonderful memories you have of him provide you some comfort and solace now and in the future. My thoughts and prayers go out to you along with my deepest sympathy.
Colin Rucker
I am so very sorry for your collective loss. I am praying for comfort for your family at this difficult time.
Mark & Helen Kelsey
I want to wish you all our deepest condolences. Steve was a great friend and always had a great time with him. We are praying for you Vickie and the boys.
John Horn
Sorry for the families loss 😒