In Remembrance Of

Pam Bernard
Pamela Jean Bernard, 60, of Smithville, MO formerly of Plattsburg, MO passed away February 20, 2025.
She was born on November 14, 1964, to Drexel David and Martha Jean (Beattie) Findley in St. Jospeh, MO. Pam grew up in Plattsburg and in 1983 she graduated from Plattsburg High School.
Pam worked for TCD in Dearborn, MO. She had a love for animals, rescuing many dogs. Pam enjoyed attending concerts, having fun with friends and going to the Hippie Fest. Pam had an infectious laugh and a very big heart, helping everyone she could. Most of all she loved being a mom and spending time with family.
Pam was preceded in death by her sister-in-law Jenny Findley.
She is survived by her daughter Amanda Pelham and husband Joseph; her parents Drexel and Martha Findley; her brother Jerry Findley; several nieces and nephews and many friends.
Celebration of Life will be held from 6:00-8:00 p.m. Thursday, February 27th at Hixson-Klein Funeral Home, Smithville.
Donations may be made to Megan’s Paws and Claws.
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Rick Reigert
Martha and Family, I’m sorry for your loss! I’ve always appreciated your friendship, you are on my mind and prayers. Please take care and know you’re on the hearts of many friends.
Jody Nelson
So very sorry for your loss. Sending comforting prayers. ♥️
Peggy Rapp
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and the days ahead.
Pennie Phillips
I worked with Pam at Henry Wurst Inc. She was more than a joy to work with, but I would like to say when she walked into a room or office, she brought light with her. She always offered a smile and we all love her. My deepest condolences to her family and friends.
Ralph & Lisa Landis
Our sympathy to the family of Pam. Our daughter, Amanda, attended school with Amanda, (Pams daughter). You are all in our prayers.
Nina Dowell
I am so sorry for your loss. Pam was such a beautiful friend. She loved having fun and enjoying life. RIP my friend. She will be missed.
Marlys and Gene Snyder
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Paul & Linda Miller
We were so sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. She fought a long and tough battle. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Edward Dale
Sincerest condolences to the Bernard and Findley Families. So sorry for your loss.
Edward and Kathryn Dale.
Glenda (Hultz) Wright
So sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. I remember in high school having the best smile and laugh. Praying for the family.
John Horn
Sorry for the families loss.
Sherry Shannon Belben
My heart and prayers go out to the family of Pam
My you feel Gods love around you at this time of loss
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Mark Clark
Pam will be missed by many. I always loved that Pam would say what was on her mind. She had such a great sense of humor. Most of all she reminded me of my sister.
We will all miss you, Pam.
RIP
Alan Boell
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Pam was a great person with a dynamic personality. She had an infectious laugh and was not afraid to be heard. You always knew where you stood with Pam. She was a great friend when I was able to spend time with her. She will definitely be missed by those who knew her.
Rest in peace my friend,
Al