In Remembrance Of
Michael “Mickey” Cross
SFC Michael “Mickey” Clarke Cross, retired, took his final and peaceful flight home the morning of June 2nd, 2022 in his home in Platte City, Missouri.
Mickey was born in Stratford, Connecticut to Clarke and Barbra Cross on October 30th, 1961. He went to Stratford High School and graduated in 1979. Shortly thereafter he joined the Army and proudly served his country for 18 years and retired in 1997. In 2001 he began his employment for the postal service in Smithville, Missouri and happily retired in September 2021. He dedicated himself to a life of public service and will be very missed by his community, coworkers, family, and friends.
Mickey reunited with his high school sweetheart and love of his life Joyce VanGrowski, they married in the fall of 2008.
He is survived by his wife of 13 years, Joyce Cross of the home; father Clarke Cross of Stratford, Connecticut; brother Jay Cross Sr. of Hamden Connecticut; his 2 sons Shawn Cross and wife Stephanie of Kansas City, Missouri and Alex Cross and wife Lauren of Smithville, Missouri and their children Avery and Rian; stepson Victor Dowgiallo and his fiancé Meghann of Milford, Connecticut; Sisters-in-law Patricia Smith and fiancé Paul of Marble Head, Massachusetts and Arlene VanGrowski of Seymour, Connecticut, and a host of cousins, nieces and nephews.
His grandparents and his mother Barbra Cross preceded him in death. Mickey thoroughly enjoyed the outdoors. Joyce often joked if you couldn’t find him to first check the yard as he was passionate about maintaining a beautiful property, then check the pool. He could also be found kicked back in front of the television enjoying a sporting event. He never shied away from hard work, often rolling up his sleeves to get things done himself. He also loved planning trips home to Connecticut to reconnect with family and friends.
Visitation: 4:00-6:00 p.m. Thursday, June 9th at Hixson-Klein Funeral Home, Smithville.
A Memorial Mass will be held in Stratford, CT at a later date.
Donations may be made to Friends of Megan’s Paws and Claws. Donations can be mailed to the funeral home: PO Box 167, Gower, MO 64454
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17 comments
Robert Mendenhall
Thank you for sharing Joyce, your husband and I had a lot of similarities, military Service, love a well kept yard, I’m just missing this great pool of yours! I’m thinking of you and all of your family, the pain your experencing will eventutally turn to the strength you need to continue to live the life your husband would still want for you and your family, hang in there my friend.
-Rob
Lee Bargo
You will always be remembered as a great friend.
Sandy Quackenbush
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Mike’s passing. Mike always helped me out if I had any postal needs, and it seemed I always needed something…We talked about his retirement at least 6 months prior and how he was counting down to the big day. Offering prayers for comfort for his family. RIP Mike…gone to soon…
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Debbie Shipley
So So Sorry for your loss he was a great guy he will be missed.
Allen Ealum
May you Rest In Peace
Cyndi Miledi
This just breaks my heart. I was Mike’s customer for 20 years. He worked so hard and was such a good man. My heart goes out to his close friends and family.
Betty Woollums
My Deepest Sympathy for your loss of Mike. He was a great guy at the post office. He always called me by name & asked how things were going. He is deeply missed. THOUGHTS & PRAYERS FOR HIS FAMILY.
Denise Breckenridge
So sorry for your loss. He was the nicest guy. Of all the employees, I preferred to have him wait on me. Always friendly and polite
Kim Nagy Rizzi
Joyce, I am so sorry about your loss. I wish I could be there to hold your hand through this very difficult time. There are really no words to express my sadness for this terrible tragedy. I can only offer you prayers to help you get through this very difficult time in your life.
Karen RICHARD
I had the pleasure of working with Mike for many years at the Smithville postoffice. We were not only coworkers, but became good friends. My husband and I are deeply saddened to learn of Mike’s passing. Our prayers go out to his sons, wife, family and friends.
Alison Carney
I am so sorry for your loss. God bless his soul. I love you, Joyce.
Jay Thompson
RIP my friend . Thank you for service to God and country. Thoughts and prayers for family.
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Chris Beall
Mickey will be missed by all. Rest in Peace.
Liz taylor
Im sorry to hear of mike passing worked with him at smithville post office he will be missed rest in peace
Diane McKown
I’m so very saddened at Michael’s death. I enjoyed him at the post office so very much. I send prayers to all of his loved ones. I’ve missed him so very much. I still look for him when I go into the post office. He will be greatly missed m
Diane Bowers
Micky was a good friend of our family. My heart goes out to the family saying prayers ❤️
Arlene VanGrowski
RIP Mickey we love you. I’m so sorry Joyce, Sean and Alex.