In Remembrance Of
Brenda Wilder
Brenda Kay Wilder, 67, of Edgerton, MO passed away April 10, 2024.
She was born on July 11, 1956, to William Carrel “Billy” and Maxine (Teeple) Harmer in Smithville, MO. Brenda grew up in Edgerton and helped at the family restaurant Harmer’s Café. She graduated from North Platte High School.
Brenda married Clarence Wilder and they made their home in Edgerton. She enjoyed planting flowers and tomato plants and going to her brother John’s farms. She loved hanging out with her mom and sister Karen at the café, thrift shopping with her sister Karen, family gatherings and most of all spending time with her nieces and nephews who she called her kids.
She was preceded in death by her husband Clarence Wilder; her father Billy Harmer; grandparents Carrel and Martha Harmer and Bill and Eileen Teeple and special friend Dale Jones.
Brenda is survived by her mother Maxine Harmer; brother John Harmer; sister Karen (Harmer) Belt; nieces and nephews Tim Huntsman, Sarah Klein, Danny Harmer, Andy (Charlene) Landis, Cory (Melissa) Harmer, and Billie (Cody) Routon; great-nieces and nephews Nick, Chase, Kellan, Lily, Andie, Sophia and Lukas; other relatives and many friends.
Visitation: 1:30-2:30 p.m. with Funeral Service at 2:30 p.m. Sunday, May 5th at Mt. Zion Baptist Church, Edgerton.
Inurnment Reed Cemetery.
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11 comments
Belinda Green
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Kim Crum Hecker
Sorry for your loss. Prayers for her family .
Tony Boydston
Prayers for the Family I went to jr high and freshman year with her
Mari "Gilliam" Owen
Sorry to hear of Brenda’s passing. My thoughts and prayers for all who knew and loved her.
Karla (Pulliam) Austin
Maxine and Family,
I’m so very sorry to hear about Brenda. She had such a kind heart and was such a hard worker. I can still remember a couple of slumber parties we had at your house. In later years when I’d be in town visiting my dad and we’d run in to her, she always remembered who I was and met me with a smile. My prayers are with you all.
Ruth Logan
Maxine, Karen, John and all the family, I want to extend my deepest sympathy to you all on Brenda’s passing. She was such a pleasant gal and always welcomed us with a smile.
Jody Brown
So very sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers for the family
Kris ward
So sorry for your loss. Prayers
Corbin Reynolds
Karen Meyers
SO Sorry to hear about Brenda Prayers and Hugs to all the family
Anita Mummert
So sorry to hear of Brenda’s passing . Sending sincerest sympathies to all .