In Remembrance Of

Amy Whitham

Amy Jo Whitham, 45, of Gower, MO passed away October 16, 2020.

She was born on February 17, 1975 in St. Joseph, MO. Amy grew up in St. Joseph and graduated from Benton High School in 1993.

Amy loved cats, the color purple, all things Prince, tv dramas, and bling. Most of all, Amy love her friends and family. 

 She is survived by her daughter Kelci Jo (Chase Simpson) Miller; her cats Sophie and Macky; father Larry Whitham; mother Kathy Whitham; sister Angie (Mike) Wachtel; nephew Brodie Smock; her daughter’s father Melvin Miller, Jr.; several aunts, uncles, other relatives and many friends. 

 Visitation: 2:00-4:00 p.m. with Memorial Services at 4:00 p.m. Sunday, October 25th at Agency United Methodist Church.

Donations may be made to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society

Arrangements by Hixson-Klein Funeral Home, Gower

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35 comments

  • Jeanette Teem

    Thoughts and prayers for all the family.

  • Connie Murphy

    May the Lord be with you all today, as you send Amy home. Prayers for the family. You’re all in my thoughts and prayers

  • Guy Jewett

    Larry & family, sorry for your loss, praying for your family.
    Jug

  • Doris Corkins

    Loving Thoughts and Sincere Sympathy to all in Amy’s Family.

  • Gayla Rene Wells

    Angie Jody and I are so very sorry to hear about your sister..I am praying for you all. .

  • Sharon Maday and Dick

    Kathy and Larry: We were so sorry to hear this, but I believe she was ready eventho’ we weren’t. She is in the arms of our Lord and Savior and is singing with the Angels. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and the family. I know Amy is sadden by the news and will miss her on Facebook. Blessings to you all.
    Sharon and Dick Maday
    Amy, Hunter, and Doug Coleman

  • Randy Simmon

    I’m sorry to hear of Amy’s passing. I was her kindergarten teacher, many years ago!

  • Sharon Dick Maday

    We were sadden to hear of Amy’s passing, but she was ready and now in the arms of our Lord and Savior. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family especially Larry and Kathy.

  • Mr. & Mrs. Dale Gandy

    I’m Dale’s wife Joyce. I met Amy at the Gower Convalscent Center several years ago. We became friends and I talked alot with Amy. We talked on the phone about twice a day and had a good laugh. She was a very pretty girl and did not complain about her pain until these later years. 21 years is along time to have MS. When I had to stop driving Dale started taking us up to see her. Amy seemed like a Daughter to me and I am missing her so much but I know that she is not suffering with pain anymore and that is good. We love you Amy.

  • M J Rodriguez

    I remember Amy Jo eating fries and a chocolate-covered wafer in the cafeteria of Benton High School. She liked to play tennis, she was fun to be around and she wore her hair in a spiral perm. I hated to see Amy Jo in her infirm condition. I hope that her parents and sister Angee receive comfort in their time of grief. Prayers for her family!

  • Jeannetta Holt

    My sincere sympathy to Amy’s family! I remember her as a sweet and cute little girl! May the Lord bring comfort to each one of you!

  • Jeannetta Holt

    My sincere sympathy to Amy’s family; I remember her as a cute, sweet little girl. My prayer is the Lord will comfort each one.

  • Cindy Ownby

    I am so sorry for the pain Amy’s family is enduring. I am sure she will be watching over her Kelci and her sweet grand baby always! Praytong for you all

  • Crista Gibson

    So sorry for your loss amy was a fine women. I’ve gotten to know her through the nursing home. I’ve worked there for 10 years and had the privilege to talk with amy. She was very sweet and always had time to talk.lovw you amy your in a better place now.

  • Tina Marriott

    My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Amy was a beautiful young woman. May the Lord be with all of you.

  • Tonya mercer

    I remember when I went to work at gower nursing home she was there and we had a good time talking about the old days in school

  • Jody Lyons

    VERY SWEET LADY SO GLAD I HAD THE HONOR TO KNOW HER !FLY HIGH AMY J

  • Tammy Wilfong-Simpson

    Angie & family, I am so very sorry for your great loss of Amy. I extend my deepest sy

  • Diana Crawford

    All my prayers & thoughts Angie

  • Joyce L. Gandy

    I am going to miss you Amy so much. You were ready to have a rest from all of the pain that you were having. So sorry that your life had to be this way. Glad you are in a better place now. Love you!!

  • Lois Hahn-Zuniga

    Rest in the Everlasting arms of our Savior, Jesus!

  • Robert Carlton

    Larry, so sorry for your loss. My our Lord comfort you and your family.

  • Lisa (Gunter) Bradshaw

    I am deeply honored and blessed to have known Amy. I remember her fondly in high school, she was always so kind. Please accept my condolences.

  • Kelly and Julie Graves

    Sorry is never enough! My heart is with you as you say goodbye! Fly high Amy Jo!

  • Iva Swope Lukehart

    So sorry for all of you guys loss. , Prayers for all . So sorry to hear about this Angie Love Iva & Family.

  • Anndrea Miller

    SO sorry for your loss. My god be with you all.

  • James Cook

    So sorry to hear this, prayers and love to all the family.

  • Denise O’Donnell

    I’m sending my sincere condolences to all that loved Amy. Praying for your peace, comfort and acceptance. God bless you.

  • Debbie & Marc Hollars

    My heart just aches for each and every one of you. Kelsie always remember your mama will always be in your heart and always watching over you.Kathy and Larry I can’t imagine loosing child and Angie I have lost a lot of siblings and it hurts ! But she is no longer in pain and she is up and jumping and running! God be with you all. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love you All

  • Kathy Shirley

    So, sorry, terrible disease, Amy faught off for many years. Didn’t realize Melvin Miller was with Amy. Guess that means I had not only both Amy and Angie in my class at Hyde.i also had Melvin in my class. They were all good students. They all touched my life in a positive way! Amy is gone way too soon! Glad she is with Jesus!

  • Donna Kay Boyd

    Larry I am so sorry for your loss. I can not imagine what your loss must feel like. I enjoyed our visit about Amy at the swarm meet. I had a lady tell me after I loss Bob ” it’s your grief you own it do it your way . I used this saying when about 6 months after he passed a lady told me I should be over it you should have seen how fast she left. you and your family are in my prayers. God’s got this

  • Kim Collins

    So sorry for your loss.

  • Sherry Davis

    I hope that our Lord brings you and your family the much-needed peace during this sad time. My condolences to you and your family ♥️

  • Craig Worley

    So sorry for your loss.

  • Sherry Davis

    I hope that our Lord brings you and your family the much-needed peace during this sad time. My condolences to you and your family

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